This presentation by Wayne Dyer is the sequel to #4.
Wayne reminds you to take self responsibility to be in the circumstances that you are at. Furthermore, he says, instead of looking all your life for achievements and externals, try looking for knowledge, for the sake of knowledge.
Go to school and read, because it makes sense to you, not because it will rank you on someone else’s score. Don’t get caught up in the trap of achievement, as it comes with stress and disease.
Stop the More-trap and Goal-myth
There is nothing wrong with goals, it is falling in love with them that is the issue. Love the process along the way, moment by moment, instead. Do what makes the greatest amount of sense, each and every day. Trust your inner instincts. Don’t suffer to try to get some place. Live in this moment and enjoy it instead.
Be a Personal Authority rather than Authoritarian
Another new way to be a new you is to see yourself as a person of personal authority. Don’t need to dominate and control others. Only inner-power works. The people who has the most authority are the ones who listen the most. The only thing that lasts is inner power. No self-doubt. The more you become honest with yourself the stronger you become. How people treat you in the world is their karma. How you respond, becomes yours. What you put out into the world is what comes back to you. The more you put out honesty, the more that will come back to you.
Choose Serenity over Acquisition
A fifth new way of being is ‘serenity’ instead of ‘acquisitions’. The more you try to get, the less serenity or inner peace you have. Serenity means inner-peace.
See the rolling mountains while you drive your life, rather think of ‘driving to somewhere’. In relationships, give love and enjoy. Attitude is everything.
SUMMARY of New Ways of Being
1. Focus on quality in your life rather than approval
2. Focus on ethics rather than rules
3. Be a personal authority rather authoritarian
4. Want to gain knowledge rather than achievement
5. Pursue serenity rather than acquisitions
If you can make these shifts and let go of the mental ‘junk’ in your life, you will never go back.
Wayne Dyer, 10 minute video presentation ‘How to be a No-Limit Person’
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Healing and Self-Help Book Reference Library ~ filled with books I or my students/clients own and we recommend. Wayne’s wonderful audio recordings are on the bottom right hand corner.