Yesterday’s BBC News is making my day:

The sweet-voiced woman managed to convince a man attempting an armed robbery in Florida to walk away, by being full of compassion, offering assistance & reminding him to go back to church & Jesus.

The desperate man said he needed money to pay his rent but the Christian shop manager convinced him that he should choose another path. She offered to help him find another job and look for another way to solve his problems.

He apologized and left.

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Today is Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday and I thought that it would be a good time for us to remember him.
In India, Gandhi is officially honored with a national holiday, Gandhi Jayanti. Worldwide, today we commemorate him with the International Day of Non-violence.

Gandhi, the lawyer who became the famed leader of the Indian revolts against the British through his philosophy of non-violent protest, is today still a major role model for us all, on how we can act with no violence, on how we can stand our ground and be true to who we truly are on the inside with all our visions and values in tact. He showed by doing so in peaceful, non-violent manners, violence will eventually subside and there will be more light on earth.

For those of you who have never seen the movie , Gandhi, I found it online and thought to bring it to you here as I thought it was a feast for the mind and the eyes.

This biography of Gandhi’s life showed me many facts that were previously hidden to me about him, his family’s hardship, his international travel, and his life’s work.

It is a very inspirational and informative movie, free to watch here. (You may need to change your screen setting to see this wonderful movie properly.)

The movie ‘Gandhi’ also reminds me that I now dream, that great men like Jesus or Gandhi may die a peaceful death, with a sense of completion and fulfillment, as indeed peace will have become truly prevalent on Earth. Indeed I dream that people like Gandhi are considered ‘normal’ rather than ‘special’ as there are billions of them. May all good men live forever, and you be one of them.

Gandhi’s Teachings of Non-Violence

Mahatma Gandhi Buy From Art.com

This picture of Gandhi (for sale at art.com for only 8 bucks) could remind us everyday (if we were to hang it on our kitchen wall) of one of his most famous quotes and essential teaching of forgiveness and non-violence:

Recommended Book: Gandhi’s Auto-biography

His unusual book “Gandhi An Autobiography: The Story of My Experiments With Truth” has been responsible for some significant changes in my life, as really is more about philosophical reflections over time (e.g. about diet) than a chronology.

“…..The Story of My Experiments With Truth”: Measure the greatness of this man with the greatness of the title of his book. His focus was not to ‘gain fame’ or ‘to win’ but rather to be TRUTHFUL to the Divinity that can be found within each of us. Ultimately Gandhi had a spiritual focus in all that he did.

In Memory of Gandhi: Realizing Inner Truth

May Gandhi be with us, always, as a spirit guide and healing memory.
May you be helped to also find your Divine inner-truth and
live by it.

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“Sigh… Forgiveness. It does not come easy, in some cases. Even though we all instinctively know we would be better off without our resentment and pain.

Twenty years ago I visited a hypno-therapist who put it to me: ‘you don’t need to drag all that anger around’. I had never thought of ‘anger’ as something one could ‘drag’ around like a prisoner’s ball. This realization enabled me to release my anger and be free to move forward with my life with a lighter load. Forgiveness is the key that opens one’s shackles. I realized that my anger was separate from me. It was a condition I could shed by forgiving.

One of the ways in which we experience divine love is through forgiveness. True and lasting peace ofmind and well-being are maintained when we are forgiving. The blessing of forgiveness heals any sense of separation between us and others.

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WHY & HOW TO FORGIVE

“Learning to forgive is infinitely more useful than merely picking up a stone and throwing it at the object of one’s anger” said the Dalai Lama recently. (Don’t you just love his no-nonsense flair?!)

Forgiveness is the mental & spiritual process of stopping to feel resentment or anger against another person for a perceived offence, difference or mistake. It may mean stopping to wish for punishment, restitution or other compensation. Forgiveness may refer to the feelings of the person who forgives, or to a relationship between the forgiver and a person being forgiven. And, sometimes we need to forgive ourselves.

“Many sources suggest that forgiveness can lead to decreased anger, depression and anxiety, and stress as well as enhanced well being, including peace of mind.” concludes Fred Luskin, a world-leading authority on forgiveness from Stanford University. He found in his studies “that forgiveness increases mental and physical health and vitality. … People experienced decreases in hurt feelings, stress, and physical symptoms of stress and increased willingness to forgive in the future.”

Of course, Fred’s premise did not come out of the blue. Most world religions include teachings on forgiveness, and many provide a basis for modern-day theories and practices of forgiveness.

10 STEPS HOW TO FORGIVE

The web is filled with ‘How to Forgive’-top 10′s, but I like counselor Diana Robinson’s practical Steps to Forgiveness:

1. Understand that forgiving does not mean giving permission for the behavior to be repeated.
2. Recognize who is being hurt by your non-forgiveness: you.
3. Do not require to know ‘why’ as a prerequisite to forgiveness.
4. Make a factual list of what you need to forgive.
5. Acknowledge your part.
6. Make a list of what you gained from the relationship, whatever form of relationship it was.
7. Write a complete forgiveness letter to the person (no need to mail it).
8. Hold a ceremony destroying your lists and letter, so symbolizing ending the damaging link between you.
9. Visualize the person you are forgiving being blessed by your forgiveness and, as a result, being freed from continuing the behavior that hurt you.
10. Now that you have freed yourself from the painful links and released the pain, feel yourself growing lighter and more joyous.

Recommended Books

Working with this article may bring up strong emotions.This is the beginning of your healing process. A good cry is a great release, so just allow that to happen. Welcome it as it frees you. However, if your very strong emotions persist, consider seeking support. Work with the above books, talk to a counselor or therapist and be sure to get Reiki simultaneously as that makes it so much easier. Reiki can help you resolve your issues energetically on all levels, including on a soul level. A counselor can help you sort things out, consciously. Both treatments complement each other. Good luck clearing up your past!

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